In a group meeting about dreams, a dreamer commented that
she was perplexed by a dream she had in which she was two people:
Aerial dog fight
dream
In my dream I’m in
space and I’m the pilot of a fighter plane—like something out of Star Wars. There’s a battle going on, and I’m on a combat mission chasing after an
enemy in another flying vehicle. We’re flying all over the place after each
other, shooting at each other, all at incredible speeds. We each sustain damage
from the other’s laser fire, but then I score a direct hit and destroy the
enemy’s plane. In the next scene I’m surveying the wreckage. There’s debris
strewn around, and I see that the enemy pilot is dead. The pilot’s helmet has
been ripped off, and as I look closer at the face, I am shocked to discover
that the dead pilot is me.
Whatever you
perceive is you
The first premise of dream interpretation is that all facets
of a dream—anyone or anything the dreamer encounters in the dream—represent
some aspect of the dreamer. This does not preclude dreams being prophetic, or
being about past lives, or acting as commentaries on someone else. But no
matter what ideas the dream may be expressing about an external issue, dreams
are always primarily commentaries on the dreamer. Even if the above dreamer had
looked at the dead pilot and seen an unfamiliar face—or the face of someone she
knew—that individual would still have symbolized some characteristic in the
dreamer’s own psyche.
For example, supposed the dreamer had looked at the wreckage
and discovered that the dead pilot was a good friend who is a really sweet and
loving person. If the deceased pilot represents an aspect of herself, then a
good question she might ask herself would be, “Is there something in me that is
attacking and destroying a part of my personality that is sweet and loving?” A
dream message like that might be grounds for re-examining destructive behavior
patterns or ways of thinking.
Suppose, instead, that the dead pilot was someone the
dreamer knew to be insincere and unreliable. The question might then become, “Is
there something in me that is attacking and destroying part of my personality
that is insincere and unreliable?” Unlike the first example, that
might indicate constructive growth.
Instead, the dreamer dreamt that the dead pilot was herself.
On the one hand, that simplified the interpretation process—at least initially.
There is no need to remind the dreamer that she is dreaming about herself; that
is already obvious.
But now, the interpretation process becomes more
complicated. When she and I begin the job of looking for metaphors in the dream
symbols, we are confronted with a dream character who is not so easy to
describe in a few words: the dreamer herself.
On Wednesday, we’ll begin to dissect this dream in earnest
to see what special messages it might contain. Stay tuned!
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