Those who read this blog are familiar with the idea that
dreams highlight internal conflicts. Dreams often describe dilemmas we are
experiencing at any given moment. Typically the conflicts are ones within us
that we are unaware of. Sometimes we know about them but have not focused clearly
on a solution. By metaphorically holding a mirror up so that we can see
ourselves from a slight distance, dreams allow us to take a more objective look
at the problems we are facing. They often imply a resolution—or the resolution
becomes obvious because we can see the issue more objectively.
And sometimes dreams present the resolution directly. That
was the case with a dreamer who attends a dream chat group that I participate
in. She is an avid dreamer—often dreaming lucidly. One evening, however, she
told us that she was feeling out of sorts. Somehow she was having fewer dreams,
and when she remembered them they seemed less compelling to her. She was
afraid that she was losing interest, perhaps even losing her ability to dream
in such a way that she recalled her nighttime experiences. She wondered what
was going on. When we asked if she had been remembering any dreams at all, she
replied that there was a recent one that she recalled fairly clearly:
Her airport dream
I was arriving at an
airport, getting ready to take an important flight. I seemed to be with a group
of about five or six others who were following me. When we got up to the
check-in counter, I was informed that my flight had been cancelled. This was
due to the airport being under construction. That’s when I looked around and
saw that the whole terminal had been torn apart. There were half-finished
concrete posts with re-bar sticking out of the top, and the usual construction
chaos and debris all around. But apparently, this only affected my flight. The
rest of my group was still able to make their various connections. But they
were confused due to the construction disruption, and I found myself helping
them to make sure they made their flights.
Initial impressions
To me, there was an obvious theme to this dream. The cancellation
of a flight was possibly a metaphoric statement of her “grounded” feeling. And
if that was true, then the idea that the plane wasn’t getting off the ground
because the airport was under construction was a really positive message. There
were things being “built” and “improved” inside of her, and this was leading to
a delay in her “flights.”
As I said, she dreams lucidly, and she was working on a
technique suggested by author Robert Waggoner: In the middle of your dream, you
ask the characters who you encounter what they represent to you. She had been
trying to do this, but had not succeeded. I suggested to her that nothing was
lost; we could go through the steps now. She agreed, and we will follow her
through the process.
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